I can say it feels very true for me. Like, I don’t know how to say the truth to people because if I do, it’s really going to show them the mirror. I can definitely tell that if we tell the truth to people who are close to us, they totally get mad at you and say, Where are your manners? and other things. They just don’t want to face the truth and don’t have the guts to deal with it. That’s why I mostly don’t tell the truth to everyone.
I just say, It’s okay, it’s your life, do whatever you want, you’re right, and leave it at that.
But if it’s a person I really love, I encourage them to be clear and always tell the truth to me. I don’t want any kind of mask in our relationship. Even if it hurts, I can bear it, but I don’t like manipulation or lies from someone I care about.
And in the end, about that native language thing it’s real. When we try to express our feelings in our native language, for me, it feels cringe or doesn’t hold the same weight. Idk why but sometimes it feels like you have to use a different language to truly express your feelings.
I agree about having clear communication and being honest with the closest. It's the most important for healthy relationships. :)
Yes, the native language barrier is real. It does feel weird and cringy when we say it in our language sometimes. Probably because they haven't been normalized yet, which I hope happens.
Thank you for reading and sharing this comment. ^^ ✨
I can say it feels very true for me. Like, I don’t know how to say the truth to people because if I do, it’s really going to show them the mirror. I can definitely tell that if we tell the truth to people who are close to us, they totally get mad at you and say, Where are your manners? and other things. They just don’t want to face the truth and don’t have the guts to deal with it. That’s why I mostly don’t tell the truth to everyone.
I just say, It’s okay, it’s your life, do whatever you want, you’re right, and leave it at that.
But if it’s a person I really love, I encourage them to be clear and always tell the truth to me. I don’t want any kind of mask in our relationship. Even if it hurts, I can bear it, but I don’t like manipulation or lies from someone I care about.
And in the end, about that native language thing it’s real. When we try to express our feelings in our native language, for me, it feels cringe or doesn’t hold the same weight. Idk why but sometimes it feels like you have to use a different language to truly express your feelings.
I agree about having clear communication and being honest with the closest. It's the most important for healthy relationships. :)
Yes, the native language barrier is real. It does feel weird and cringy when we say it in our language sometimes. Probably because they haven't been normalized yet, which I hope happens.
Thank you for reading and sharing this comment. ^^ ✨